Found recently:
“The simple but nonetheless important point to emerge from this is that it is not God's will for us to exist merely as individual Christians. We are meant to gather together as the people of God.”
It struck me while reading the web-article where I found this quote, that there was nothing actually wrong with it, but that it was answering a wrong-headed question; or that it wasn't saying anything necessarily false, but just not saying the entire truth.
In other words, the person writing this assumes that we are first individuals, and then we have to make the effort to join the church. Reality is that we are not members of Christ without being members of His body, and so if any move is made, it is the move to separate. We aren’t primarily lone Christians with the individual lifeline to God, who then have to be sure and join the Church. We are baptized into Christ, Head and Body. Not to participate in the life of the Church isn't just maintaining status quo, it is to act contrary to the existing reality. It is not God’s will for us to exist as individual Christians, as the article mentioned, and so God didn’t make us individual Christians.
I realize slowly how deeply ingrained this individualistic paradigm is in myself, and in Americans in general.